A lot to do

Because it is so late at night I am going to make my first post short. Basically my life has gone downhill the last 3 years ever since my husband decided on his own to take a one year sabaticle to pursue acting and writing. He did this in spite of not being financially secure and with many obligations and responsibilities including at that time child support. I became the primary support for the household and as I told him I do not make enough money to support us alone. He has many different odd jobs and has done many acting roles, some he would not have had the opportunity to do if he were still teaching. My husband will be 60 years old in a couple of weeks and we all know it is hard enough to get a big break into acting when you are in your 20's much less your late fifties. His decision has not been lucritive and in June of this year I found out that he had not paid the mortgage since January of this year. I found this out when a Federal Express package was delivered while my husand was away for a weekend "just chillin". It was information about how to stave off forclosure using the Obama plan. He had already gotten a forclosure letter from an attorney. For the first half of this year I began suffering from various health issues due to stress. I continually went into work even when I was sick thinking I was keeping a roof over our heads. Now we are loosing it. I have chosen to take my own "sabatical". In November we will be separating and I will be moving into my own apartment. This will my first step to taking my life back and getting me back.